Seducing With Style is the premiere guide to Men’s Style and Attractive Fashion. We don’t just teach you how to dress well, we teach you how to dress well and create an attractive lifestyle. The blog is mostly written by image consultant and dating coach Vince Lin.
If there is just ONE THING you remember from visiting this site, it is this:
STYLE = THE ARTISTIC EXPRESSION OF YOUR IDENTITY
Q: Doesn’t what’s on the inside matter more than how I look on the outside? Why should I care about Style?
Vince: It’s true that who you are as a person is way more important than how you look. However, the truth is that women judge you by the way you look. If your looks aren’t up to her standards, it doesn’t matter how great of a person you are– she’ll already have written you off and she’ll never get the chance to get to know you.
Q: Isn’t it shallow & self-centerd to be concerned about the way you look?
Vince: I used to to think so too, but then I realized that it’s only shallow if you only care about how you look, an important distinction. Learning how to express who you really are through clothing can actually be a very enlightening experience.
As far as being self-centered, that’s not true at all. Think about it for a moment: do you want the women in your life to take care of how they look and dress so that they look their best, or would you prefer that they dress sloppily and not care at all about how they look? The answer is obvious, and women want the same thing. By dressing and looking your best, you are actually doing women a favor.
Q: Isn’t there more to attracting women than just Style?
Vince: Absolutely, and there is tons of great information about meeting women online. However, Style is an absolutely key part of the puzzle, because your clothing is one of the first things a woman notices about you. It doesn’t matter how good you are with women if you can’t even get them to talk to you because you dress poorly.
Q: I don’t know anything about style, will your book help?
Vince: Yes! I cover some pretty advanced topics in my book, but I start with the very basics, assuming that you know nothing about style. No matter what your current level is in regards to style, the information in my book will help get you to the next level.
Q: How long will it take me to learn how to dress stylishly?
Vince: The great thing about Style is that is something you can fix almost immediately. Depending on how quickly you can read and go shopping, you can start seeing results within just a few days. Of course, it will take a little longer to master all the rules of Style, but by having my book as a reference you will be able to dramatically shortcut the process.
Q: I’m a poor college student. Can I be stylish on a budget?
Vince: Absolutely! I was once a starving student myself, so I can totally relate to this. The great thing about Style is that you don’t have to be rich to look stylish. By learning the fundamentals of Style and following the shopping advice provided in my book, you will be able put together some amazing outfits without breaking the bank.
Q: What will my wife or girlfriend say?
Vince: Women love style and fashion. The advice in this book can be used not only to attract new women, but increase your attractiveness to the woman you’re with. Trust me, women know how important it is to look good, and she will appreciate the effort you’re putting into looking better for her.
I am not responsible for the massive amount of attention you will be receiving from OTHER females now that you have a girlfriend AND have great style, however. What you do with that new superpower if up to your own morality and ethics.
Q: What can I find here on the site?
Vince: On our site, we’ll teach you everything you need to know about style, starting with the basics to the most advanced tactics:
- If you’re just getting started on your style journey, check out Style 101 for fundamental fashion advice.
- For a comprehensive list of attractive stereotypes to model, see our Sexual Avatars section.
- If you’re looking for detailed breakdowns of stylish looks, head over to the Lookbook.
Learning about style and fashion is an exciting and empowering journey, and we hope you join us. By following the advice on this site, we promise we’ll have you looking like a new man in no time. Enjoy the site!